Changing clothes and bathing regularly can become a battleground for you and your elderly loved one. Understanding why she might be resisting these activities can help you to find a solution that makes this less of an issue between the two of you.
Your Loved One Doesn’t Think She Needs To
As your elderly loved one ages, she may start to lose some of her senses. One of the senses that can affect her ability to determine if she should bathe or change her clothes is her sense of smell. Losing that sense means that your loved one doesn’t have any sort of signal to herself that there’s an issue that she needs to correct.
Your Loved One Feels out of Control
If your elderly loved one has been independent for a long time, she may start to resent losing some of her independence or needing additional assistance. This can manifest in her taking control in other, smaller ways. One way that this is extremely common for loved ones to assert themselves is with either choosing not to bathe or to change clothes.
Your Loved One Thinks She Did
Another area where your loved one can get into a problem area with bathing and changing her clothes is her memory that she’s already done that recently. That memory can be a faulty one, however. One way you can manage this is to help your loved one to use a calendar to keep track of the days that she’s had a shower. She can see at a glance what day it is and whether she needs to bathe that day or not.
Your Loved One Is Depressed
Depression can cause your loved one to have a lack of interest in most activities that she normally handles well, like bathing. Learning the signs of depression can help you to spot an issue much more quickly. If you do suspect your loved one is depressed, contact her doctor and begin working out a treatment plan for her.
Hiring senior care providers can be one solution that helps both you and your elderly loved one. Work with her doctor to find additional solutions.
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